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Monday, October 17, 2005

Special purchase

Wife and i went to JoAnn's yesterday to buy a sewing machine carrier that they advertised in their flyer. The place is so disorganized, they never received it from the vendor! It took three employees to finally tell us they weren't even issuing rain checks; the first two employees even directed us to the wrong place, and we were consistently told the wrong thing and directed to someone else. Wife was quite disappointed with such poor service, if W/we had stock in the company, i am sure She would sell it.

However, on the way in they had a rack of Halloween costumes for sale at 50% off, and She let me buy a French maids' uniform for only $6.85!!! It has a cute little headpiece with white lace and a black bow that matches the two black bows on the white bodice of the black dress. And, it has a tiny little white apron that i just love. It is just sooo cute, though i look like a dork in it, i need to lose at least ten pounds, sadly.

She has taught me to look for bargains, as one must in these tight times! Even though i am working full time at a much higher salary, and am responsible to see that all the bills are paid on time, i never forget that this is a Wife led home; financial matters ultimately are Hers to decide. So i ask permission from Her even when spending my allowance on a maid outfit to be sure She approves. This is not to say i don't have input on financial decisions. If She decides to buy something big, say several thousand dollars for furniture, She usually asks me if we have can fit it in the budget. She has a more general feel for what W/we can afford, since i do the grunt work of writing the checks, balancing the checkbook, scheduling the bills etc. Also, i can suggest spending, but always respecting Her decision, yea or nay. For instance, after the great purchase on the maids' costume, i asked if i could buy some flowers when W/we shopped at Costco, but was told no. Surprised, i thought She would take it as a romantic gesture that would have brightened up the house, but She felt we were spending too much on frivolous things and of course, She was right.

At this time, my name is still on all of our banking, credit, home, vehicles, etc. If it were up to me, this wouldn't be. Having accepted Her Authority, i wish to place my financial, physical and emotional well being into Her care. She says She will consider it in the future, but for now it is easier for Her to delegate the check signing, and since my direct deposit pay must go to an account with my name on it to be legal, things will stay as they are. Perhaps after i retire, but i guess that it really would be more of a symbolic gesture, like a slave being collared. Even though i have credit cards and cash, i would never use them for something without Her approval, and pehaps this delights Her even more. Do you think i am being silly in wanting to be financially dependant on Her?