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Friday, August 19, 2005

How to become PW

Having been married over 15 years, and needing to convince Her that my submissive desires were not going away, i found myself with Her on vacation away from all distraction and other people we knew. It was then that i made an issue of what was so important to me, in our hotel room, in a strange city, at the beginning of a long trip.
Anyone could do what i did, but few do. i told her how much it meant to me, how being submissive wasn't something that would go away. i cried my eyes out and begged for understanding.
She relented, and agreed to try it one weekend a month. After all, what could it hurt. She probably never expected it to lead to the life we now lead, it was so unlike anything in Her experience. She was raised in a military family, where the man wore the pants! and the wife and daughters did what they were told. So this did not come naturally to Her.
It took many years for us to learn how to get along and build a new relationship. Our children aren't even aware of the details, as She has always felt this area of our lives is private. They do know that Dad and Mom get along very well, never fight, and are always united.
Not that it isn't obvious to everyone who knows us that i am pussywhipped, but i am sure that nobody knows the extent to which She wields the authority in our house now. For what started out as one weekend a month has gradually become second nature 24/7. She works a part time job and i work full time, and we enjoy a few luxuries such as a housecleaning service once a week, but that is to my benefit, or else i would be the one vacuuming, dusting, etc.
As it is, She does the cooking but i do all of the clean up. Besides dishes, i do laundry, clean up after the pets, dump the trash, and all of the maintenance for the vehicles and home repair that we don't hire anyone to do for us. She does some yard care, like tending the garden, because She enjoys it. For any job that comes up, She knows i will do it when told, but it has been my desire to do it before she needs to ask to have it done. And that is the key to being a good submissive husband, if only i could have enough time and energy to always do everything before She even asks.
This more than anything else has helped me convince Her to let me serve Her. Like the Nike add says, "Just Do It". She has financial control, sets our schedule for exercise, social events, and has final say on any and all decisions. It isn't something we negotiated, i just surrendered and She appreciates it. She doesn't expect me to check with Her for every little thing, but for any little thing that She decides, She knows that i will obey Her wishes. This is difficult to understand if you are not a submissive, and if you are it is difficult to follow. But it is rewarding if making Her happiness your joy. In creating this blog, i am trying to help others, like me, who crave this kind of a loving relationship. I hope to post cleaning tips, give ideas on small services you can perform, and welcome feedback that contributes to my being able to please Her in any way.

1 Comments:

  • At 5:24 PM, Blogger Just Me said…

    Lifemate,
    One word, "Surrender". Having made the choice to live my fantasy, i have never regreted it. Good luck on finding your path.

     

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